HOLY FAMILY, SANDERSTEAD - A MISSIONARY PARISH OF MISSIONARY DISCIPLES

Webmaster • September 1, 2024

Saint Pope John Paul II said: A Catholic parish “calls for the involvement of the ENTIRE People of God and requires a new fervour, new methods and a new expression for the announcing and witnessing of the Gospel.”


Our own Archbishop John, says that all the parishes of the Archdiocese of Southwark (which includes Holy Family parish, Sanderstead!) and EVERYONE who comes to holy Mass, is called to embrace this impulse of missionary transformation. Nobody in Holy Family parish, Sanderstead or any parish, ought to be a passive, inactive member of a Christian community. Every one of us, whatever our circumstances, is called by the Lord, through our Archbishop and through my poor, unworthy Self as your Parish Priest, to bring other people to know Jesus and his Church. Here in Sanderstead, in Hamsey Green and indeed everywhere we find ourselves, we are all asked by the Lord Jesus to be his missionary disciples and responsible members of Holy Family parish, Sanderstead. The main goal of everyone who comes to our parish, is to connect with those who do not yet follow the Lord Jesus, to love them and to welcome them into the Church. I know that much great work like this is done by people of our parish but outside our parish, in various ways. That is wonderful. Nonetheless, these good people of our parish, are also called by the Lord, to contribute in some way to the work for Evangelisation that is taking place in their own parish.


Many Catholic parishes often appear to have just a few very generous people who do very much in their parishes, while there are others who do very little. We need, by the grace of God in the gift of the Holy Spirit, to try to reverse that trend. Here in Holy Family parish, we certainly have a number of amazingly generous and holy people who do a huge amount of work to build God’s Kingdom in this place and to evangelise; others who do some really good work for God too, in our parish; others though, who I am sad to say, have yet to begin to be actively involved in God’s work. I hope to continue to encourage everyone in our parish, to full, conscious and active participation in our Calling to be Missionary Disciples of Jesus in a Missionary Parish. To do so, I hope to thank and to ask those who are already doing so much, to actually do less and to allow others to better share in the work we do! I hope to thank and encourage those who have begun to share in God’s work in this place, to perhaps do a little more! I will risk being thought badly of, by inviting those who have yet to be actively involved, to please hear the Call of the Lord Jesus and say yes to his loving request. However, please don’t wait for me to speak with you; please do speak with me and tell me how you feel you can better live this wonderful Calling that we all have of being the voice, the hands, the very presence of Jesus in this place. There is such a range of work that we can all do. Let’s talk about it together and find that place and way that is yours. I pray for you every day.


The ‘Olde Forge Cafe’ is not primarily a social venue for parishioners of Holy Family parish. It has ceased to be a Parish Hall where Holy Family parishioners enjoy themselves! It is now, first and foremost, in response to what our Archbishop is asking of us, a place for us to bring our neighbours, family members, colleagues and friends who do not yet know the Lord Jesus and his Church very well. Of course, it is for us too, as we try to fulfil our Calling to be Missionary Disciples, in a Missionary Parish.


“Who have I brought with me?” This must be the question on our lips and in our minds and hearts to indicate the efforts we need to be making, every time we come to holy Mass and every time we come to the ‘Olde Forge Cafe.’

By Webmaster April 22, 2025
The next meeting for our parishioners preparing for Adult Baptism and the Sacrament of Confirmation will be next Saturday 26th April, at 11.00am in the Parish Room
By Webmaster April 22, 2025
To everyone who helped in so many different ways during Holy Week and on Easter Day. May the good Lord reward you for all your great efforts.
By Webmaster April 22, 2025
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By WEBMASTER April 20, 2025
Tue 22: Maggie Wed 23: Collette Thu 24: John Fri 25: David
By Webmaster April 14, 2025
Tuesday 15th April at 6.0 0pm If you haven’t yet, during Lent, experienced the gentle forgiveness of God in this wonderful Sacrament, please come and allow the loving Lord to fill you  with his peace so that you will be ready to enter into Easter Joy.
By Webmaster April 14, 2025
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By Webmaster April 14, 2025
During the course of the Last Supper, the first holy Mass, Jesus dramatically showed his friends how to love, by washing their feet. During our holy Mass of the Lord's Supper, on Thursday evening, I would like to bathe the feet of 12 members of our congregation, as a sign of how much Jesus loves them and loves every one of us. Please allow me to bathe your feet. We need 12 people, women and men, young and not so young. Please put your name on the sheet which you will find in the porch of the church, if you will help me with this ceremony.
By Webmaster April 14, 2025
This week is the most important week in the year for all who follow the Lord Jesus as Christians. The secular world thinks only of Bunnies, Easter Eggs, more Food and Entertainment. While those things are fine and we can rightly enjoy them at the right time, they must never take the place or be more important than what our Blessed Lord offers us in Holy Week and Easter. This is the week above all others, each year, to put what the Lord Jesus asks of us before everything else. This week, by the grace of Almighty God, we have the opportunity, over 2000 years later, to join the Lord Jesus in the final days of his life in this world, as he suffers, dies and rises from the dead to give us forgiveness for our sins and eternal life beyond the grave. Please come to holy Mass on Maundy Thursday and be with him as he shows us how to love and gives us the strength to do so. Give him some time after holy Mass and before Midnight to “watch and pray” Please come to the solemn, sacred liturgy of Good Friday at 3.00pm, the exact hour he is reputed to have died, after hours of torture and suffering to show the depth of his love for you. Please come to the beautiful, inspiring Easter Vigil and First holy Mass of Easter Sunday at 8.30pm on Saturday evening, to renew your Baptismal promises, to allow the light and joy and peace of the risen Lord fill your soul. In addition to the above ‘Triduum’ (3) sacred Services which are celebrated by everyone who has a real and deep love for the Lord, there are 2 other times in Holy Week to be close to him: A short, brief ‘Walk of Witness’ on Good Friday morning when we will be joined by people of other Christian Churches in Sanderstead. We will begin at 11.45am and walk along Sanderstead High Street. One of our parishioners will carry a cross, as the Lord himself did, to remind all those who see us of the meaning of Good Friday. The whole Walk and final prayers on the ‘Gruffy’ will only last 30 minutes.  A simple, short, outdoor Service by the side of our church, as dawn breaks, to celebrate the Resurrection of the Lord. We will light a fire and pray in thanksgiving to the Lord as the light of day comes upon the sleeping world. Afterwards, a cup of hot tea or coffee in the Cafe. We will be joined by members of other Christian communities in Sanderstead.
By Webmaster April 13, 2025
Please could you help with 30 minutes of your time to clean our church for Easter. Please come on the morning of Saturday the 19th April at 9.30am. Thank you for this humble service which in itself is a beautiful prayer to the Lord.
By Webmaster April 13, 2025
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